The number of self help books, teacher, and masters is staggering. How can you look to the self for help when it is this self that is causing all of you problems?
Wow! Consult, read those books or talk to mentor for directional help and it’s the self within oneself which will transfer from good to better to best!
It is the that which we are within the self where the help lays. The self is the entire compilation of everything we’ve been told about who we are, everything that we have experienced because of who we think we are, and the perception of the world around us base on who we think the self is.
Well said Mr Mel. What I am trying to say – Let me take an analogy- some are born leader, some achieve leadership – similarly some of our self is self sufficient and some time we need directional help just like a light house which just guides us when the ship is lost.
Great comment! Very true the self controls the self however it is also the self that puts one in a position to need help. Self is a perception, it is this perception that says that what you are experiencing is real. Without self there is life lived fully. 👍
Life, more than existence! 
That’s a very good question.
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Sometimes we are desperate to be saved, but too proud to admit we need to be saved from ourselves. You made me actually think, Mel!
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Yes, when the self…..! 👍
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Good question…
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Because diamond cuts diamond
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Very good observation, if you recognize the diamond.
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Yeah,which those self-help books aid you in
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What a great question?
The answers were not in those books for me, the only answer that eventually mattered was already within.
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that’s powerful
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Wow! Consult, read those books or talk to mentor for directional help and it’s the self within oneself which will transfer from good to better to best!
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It is the that which we are within the self where the help lays. The self is the entire compilation of everything we’ve been told about who we are, everything that we have experienced because of who we think we are, and the perception of the world around us base on who we think the self is.
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Well said Mr Mel. What I am trying to say – Let me take an analogy- some are born leader, some achieve leadership – similarly some of our self is self sufficient and some time we need directional help just like a light house which just guides us when the ship is lost.
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Direction will only get you so far, but they cannot make you see the light.
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So true
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Thank you. Thank you also for visiting and commenting.
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Self help books are useless without the mind wanting change. Not a simple want either, all or nothing!
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Very well said, until the self is ready there is no helping. Thank you for visiting and commenting.
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So true. Love it.
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Thank you, and thank you also for visiting.🌹
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The self is the only one you can look at to help, because the Self controls the Self.
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Great comment! Very true the self controls the self however it is also the self that puts one in a position to need help. Self is a perception, it is this perception that says that what you are experiencing is real. Without self there is life lived fully. 👍
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